Ross Jeffries 4

What To Do When She's Cold On The Phone

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently, I received the following email from a member of the on-line Speed Seduction® discussion group.(Yes, we actually offer round the clock, 24 hour
encouragement, advice on support with and for thousands
of Home Study course owners around the world! How's that
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Anyway, he asks about an important issue: what
happens when a woman who was initially warm to you,
suddenly turns cold on that first follow up phone call?
Many guys blow this "test" and wind up walking away from
some potentially awesome women and fun, fulfilling
relationships. So let's hear what he has to say:

Hey All,

After learning SS for four months, I have gotten
some pretty exciting results, specifically people react
to me in a completely different way. I am able to get
rapport and talk to women easily. Also, when I do two
brothers, the ideal relationship (put it in my three
fingers and eat it) and the energy demo, I generate
attraction. I have gotten good at this and at
generating big interest as well.

I met a girl at the coffee shop. After meeting her
and talking for a long time (like an hour) and running a
bunch of patterns, two brothers, energy demo, self
pointing, massaging the back of her neck, etc. I got her
really going. She was having fun, she like me, rapport
etc. She wanted to give me her number and I get it.

But when I called her back two days later she was
not interested in meeting. When I call her, what is the
best way to take her back to our last meeting? What are
the best things to say to make her go back to those
states? What are the best things to do during our first
meeting to make sure that she will want to meet up with
me in the next few days? What is the best message I can
leave to make her call me back and want to meet? (This
assumes we can't just change venue. Of course changing
the venue instead of getting her number is better.)

Thanks,

G.


Good question, G.

Sometimes, people change their minds. It can be for
ANY reason. You can do EVERYTHING perfect and still you
will not get the girl; you will get good practice and a
chance to polish your resourcefulness.

I also can't tell whether you got her on the phone
or left a message, so PLEASE clarify and maybe I can
help further.

Generally, if women are polite but seem
disinterested, my response is, "Hey, no problem, no
strings. I just thought you could REMEMBER THE FUN TIME
WE HAD...and IMAGINE ENJOYING MORE..but, best to you,
you have a good one."

No bitterness. No fear. No rancor. Just, ok, guess
you just didn't get it or maybe you are just having a
bad day.

Now, it is a DIFFERENT story if she is rude, and ice
cold when I call. I've had THAT happen too, and it can
be a shock when it is such a turn around from the first
responses she had at the first meeting. Then my response
is: "Wow...what a rude, cold way to have to PRETEND to
be. Have a good day".

Then hang up. If she's just being defensive or
insecure you've given her a chance to apologize and come
round. Notice the word "pretend" which implies you think
she's not really this way, but capable of better.

Understand, some women are super-moody. Some have an
initial interest, but their fears of intimacy or their
frozen nature just takes over. Some just think they are
entitled to treat the world like crap. If she calls you
back with anything other than an apologetic tone, hang
up on her and write her off. Trust me, you don't need
the trouble or bother. Move on with the gift of your
skills and find someone more fun, more pleasure, less
bother.

Make sense?

For you at home, reading this, understand that an
important, but often neglected part of learning success
with women is SCREENING. Learning to look for what you
want and also what you will not put up with, and then
sticking to you guns.

I will put up with women being ordinary humans, and,
like all of us, having bad moods and bad days. That's
just being wise and using your compassion.

I will NOT put up with women who are perpetually
frozen, emotionally cold, think they are God's gift to
men, have wild and frequent mood swings, etc

Remember as you move up the learning curve with
Speed Seduction®, YOU HAVE A GREAT GIFT TO OFFER. Don't
give it or continue to offer it to those who rip off the
wrapping only to use it for toilet paper.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries

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